This is my own personal opinion. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. This is my own personal opinion. The answer is, most emphatically, NO. Random Questions to Ask a Guy. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and she really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc.
I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. I deal better with inattention when he is home better than him as well. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned.
Because she already lives the covenants in most of the meaningful ways. We are long distance, and it is hard, because when we are together I spend much of time alone waiting for him to come back from the hospital. Hi Op, I wouldn't worry about the lack of constant contact too much. There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. Are the sacrifices you make for your partner worth it, and do you have any tips for making it work. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. God be with you all. There have been times in the last three years that we have had to live paycheck to paycheck so the idea of a rich doctor is antiquated in most cases.
We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that. I love him more than anything, but lately, the lack of real time together and the stress of his work impacting how I am made to feel like I'm on eggshells when we do get together almost seems like to much to bear. I married a person, not a religion.