I have been with him through medical school and residency for internal medicine, which was tough, but manageable. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. While I do get to accompany him to various dinners and parties, we hardly ever have time together just us, and when we do, he just wants to relax over dinner and decompress. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. He doesn't even think he works that much even though he sleeps 5 hours a night when he sleeps at all.
Once his residency is over, you'll have more time together, but that's going to be a while from now. She converts to your religion. I have missed the Church in some ways, and certainly the blessings of a temple marriage. He married the new girl then cheated on her. He is a resident now, and I am a professor The problem is that we could not find a geographic location that could accommodate both of us, and this is a second year that we live apart, in two different states. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion. My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. Here's my advice though: It doesn't sound like you want that though, so you're going to have to talk to him. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice.
She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. But I've met those 3 dates to engagement couples. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. Things have worked out pretty well with us so far. I know in terms of so many things as well as financial stability choosing another path is very uncertain, we would also have the student loans we would have to pay back. Here are a few questions you could ask her. And as an outsider it will be obvious to you what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - we will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and something that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago.
Over the span of the last year though, things have slowly changed. What do you do while they are away. But, when you're married to a doctor, know that doctors don't sacrifice for their marriages. You'll know pretty quick where she stands. I didn't even believe. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. Hi, I am so glad to know that I am not alone. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church.