She will try to convert you. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. Well I have no choice. Marry a person based on his character, not his religion.
My number one question is about family - I want him to be able to be around for kids when that time comesso how realistic is it to expect him to be there for their sporting games or whatever they're doing. To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me. We have been married a mere 3.
He is a great man and I know he will always put his family first but this is such a hard decision. I know how much it hurts, and it makes you feel unwanted. I just graduated college and my boyfriend has one more year. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. We have been together for over ten years, but only married for 6 months. He has become engrossed with pornography and having cybersex via cam with random women he meets in game rooms. Now to answer you question more directly, I believe you should discuss your fears with him so he understands exactly where you want your relationship to go for both of you, otherwise you might grow resentful of him and he may have no clue as to why. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. The only thing I can say is good luck to all.
After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. After our first kiss she lets me know she won't have sex with me because she's mormon and we'd need to be married first. It helps put my small, first world problems into perspective. I still struggle with the silence in contact or wanting to "rescue" him from the harried schedule.