Marry a person based on his character, not his religion. It's simply sometimes hard to accept that while he is your number one priority, you probably never will be. Sometimes I often think he is a wrong choice. Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. The two of us are going on an overnight this weekend. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. Anyone with experience dating a doctor or another insanely busy person. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either.
We all know that. Now those are not the problems in my head anymore, whats in my head is how arewe goin to deal with this, ive told her sometimes u wont have anytime for me nor for your kids if we decide to have kids you wont be at the holidays nothing like that and she is always tryin to see everything positive and tells me dont worry ill schedule myself, and im like baby you will not be able to schedule urself your life would be in a hospital. And on the other hand the thought of having to go through these residency years ahead haunts me. I pray the holy Spirit will provide guidance to both of us, and that love conquers all. Best of luck OP. Just to make things worse I am from South America, he is australian and we live in Australia, no much support here Anyway good to know that I am not the only one. But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. If you stay together l, you are going to have to remind her of that commitment. I dated many LDS guys before him. Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either.
If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. Here are a few questions you could ask her. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. I'm so glad you mentioned some of the things that I have been suggesting to my boyfriend for some time, but he has been skeptical about.
I can deal with the hours its when he comes home and is so burnt out it kills me. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. Lots of really thorough replies. I cooked every meal…… My husband went to work…being a god to his patients. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about.